One thing people always say to me, whether I’m coaching life or business is that they want to be ‘free’.

And I’m sure FREE is important to you too. It is me.

Yet our definitions and conditions, we place on freedom is the exact reason we don’t experience it.

For me I used to think that I would be free when I had the ‘money’.

Then when I had the money, it was the ‘body’

Then when I had that it was of course something else.

I never seemed to feel completely free in all areas.

So here’s why, I was so INVESTED in the past that I couldn’t possibly have my Unlimited Life.

There was still the ‘yeah but you failed at that…’, ’Yeah, that wasn’t a nice thing to do..’, ‘You just are not the right person’

My mind was running for old stories to validate my present.

We all do it.

When I become fully free it was because I truly let go of the past.

Now this isn’t a ‘hey you need to spend your time in the past thing’

Yet I know because I fully faced all the energy of the past I can and AM indeed free.

It has created so much space within me for the important things in life.

Not money, even though I have it.

Not the body, even though I have it.

Not the soul mate wife, even though I have one.

You know the freedom I have is internal.

It’s a lightness that makes decisions EASY! And because it feels easy, life shows up that way.

Inspiration flows through me and I act on it without past thoughts and feelings of how the results will unfold.

You will have ‘infinite’ time when stop thinking so much about the PAST

Here are some things to seriously consider that can help you right now.

1. Knowing your why

Sounds cheesy but ‘losing weight’ isn’t enough,

Neither is fitting in a dress or item of clothing. It has to be a deeper connection than that. Why does it matter the clothes you wear or how much weight you lose.

What does it really mean to you?

As in, do I feel unattractive to my partner etc. Be radically honest with yourself as if you are not, you give yourself unconscious permission to fall off the wagon.

2. Who you surround yourself with matters

If all the people around you moan about their body or have more negative conversations, you will become absorbed into those issues.

Yet, if you ask for help from people that want you to win, they will hold you accountable to your best self, not your lower self.

Sadly, your friends and family like who you ARE, not who you can be, it threatens them at a deeper level and worry of being left behind.

That’s why checking being around a supportive group is essential.

3. Stop the noise

If you find yourself subscribed to lots of different groups, pages, podcasts or books, again, its a distraction and a quick way to be overwhelmed.

Stop it.

You have to learn to trust you know enough (which you all do) and follow that 1 process for a period of time.

Until you cut all the noise away, you will never fully commit.

4. If you don’t check in with yourself each day, your life will always be the same as your past.

Remember, if you have no pause points, you have no choices to make. It’s just like being on a hamster wheel all day.

However, if you pause and consider whats happening right now, then you have the power to change it.

Yet if you just feel overwhelmed in your day, things will always be the same until you get burnt out.

5. Set small goals

Many cause a lot of unnecessary pain due to setting goals that they can’t really imagine coming true.

The reality is, your brain treats you as a stranger when you imagine the future. And, the further you get ahead, the less you have to attach to,

This is another reason that it’s easy to give into pressure from friends and family.

So, set small weekly goals and assess each week, they will then help add up to a bigger goal.

If you do the above, progress is guaranteed,

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For women that are fed up of being at war with their body.

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