How Is Your Relationship Doing Through This Lockdown?
Have you been at each other’s throats already?
OR
Are you still enjoying all the extra time you get to spend with each other?
I’ve never even imagined such a challenging time like this coming for all of us to experience…YET!
I truly believe it gives us the best opportunity to reflect on our lives deeply and what goes with that – our relationships!
And as they say… how you do sex is how you do life…
Have you heard that?
There are 3 stages of consciousness in your RELATIONSHIPS and SEX
Stage 1 – CODEPENDENCE – where male energy plays out the macho alpha style role and the female energy perceives itself as weak and dependent
It’s here that very often you feel stuck and not like ‘yourself’ yet your socially conditioned perceptions keep you STUCK in your role as you just don’t know any different. Sex will often feel forced and staged, not much excitement, more obligation…
Stage 2 – INDEPENDENCE – where male dominant energy explores it’s feminine aspects and the female dominant energy explores it’s masculine aspects, we become independent of each other, we feel like we learn to BALANCE our energies within ourselves yet we still get together as we purely enjoy the opposite energy in our space
It’s here that sex often is no longer on the cards in any way shape or form as to enjoy an intimate and sensual experience we require the polarity arc to be created between the dominant masculine purpose and dominant feminine flow coming together… That’s not the case here in stage 2 very often!
Stage 3 – INTERDEPENDENCE – a beautiful dance of the two energies coming together KNOWING their own UNIQUENESS, their own STRENGTH and POWER.
It’s here where we beautifully come together and intuitively FEEL each other’s needs and desires. We communicate consciously. We have the presence of strong, purposeful masculine that creates the container that is required for the conscious feminine to fill up with it’s flow as it trusts and surrenders
It is also here where a sexual act is no longer an act of fulfilling out physical desires only, it’s Synchronistic Energy Xchange where we surrender to following our highest excitement and we KNOW that we’re always lived by a greater force than us ourselves and we allow ourselves to be GUIDED!
It is HERE where you begin to create your TRULY UNLIMITED LIFE!!
Back in 2016, 4 years ago now, I was very much in the trenches of exploring this myself and learning why and how my relationships across my entire life worked out the way they did
3 years ago I run 2 epic training sessions one for the guys and one for the ladeez
Both were over 3 hours long
We talked sex, expression, sexuality and desires
And how masculine/feminine affect our relationships, business, health and day to day life
A couple of years ago I run an amazing Sexy Masterclass with the one and only Caroline D’Arcy
Where we explored all of the above again with an amazing group of curious ladies
Over the last few weeks I’ve been talking about it a lot again with clients
And today this post popped up as a memory…
Perfect timing (of course!) in times like these
Sexuality, our expression, feminine and masculine energies that we’re acting out of
The understanding of our desires
What turns us on and off as humans and why
Is very often an overlooked yet IMPERATIVE part of living the life we desire
Or
Not…
It’s the people I’ve worked with that opened up and started speaking up about what previously might have been labelled taboo or inappropriate
It’s those that learnt to express their desires in all aspects of their life
It’s those that took responsibility
That are now living the life of emotional freedom and unlimited possibilities
And that doesn’t mean that everything is always ‘perfect’
It’s about their interpretation of circumstances and situations they face
It’s about their attitude towards it
As remember guys
It is always and in all ways
Your ATTITUDE that creates your OUTCOME and not the CIRCUMSTANCES
(even more so when you’re locked down and have no idea how long it’s all going to last!!)
M x
