If you think you suck at life – GOOD NEWS
IF YOU THINK YOU SUCK AT LIFE – GOOD NEWS!
It’s just a learnt behaviour of your un trained mind
Everything is learnt
Practiced
With or without knowing
The school of life often happens in the background
You’ve no idea what it is that you’re doing your revision on
And then the exams…
Well…
If you think you’ve failed at love
That’s your exam passed!
If you think you’re shit with money…
That’s your exam passed with distinction
If you think your whole life is a bit (or a lot in fact) of a mess
There you have it – your degree with honours
Every outcome we have in life
Is a result and a confirmation of a story that somewhere deep down we believe is true
Let me give you an example
A client of ours recently had an epic realisation
She’s always struggled with being independent
Couldn’t comprehend confidently making her own decisions
Growing her business and making more money was a challenge
And you know what?
Then it became obvious
She is called:
Wait for it….
‘THE BABY OF HER FAMILY!’
Think about it:
Does a baby know how to look after itself?
Does a baby know how to be a successful business owner?
Does a baby behave with certainty and takes every step with confidence?
Can you see what’s unraveling here?
If up until recently
Being a baby of the family therefore connecting and getting love from them this way
Was deeply ingrained in her subconscious
And meant that’s how she connected to her family
She’d never, EVER allow herself to be self sufficient and independent
As that child within her
Would be crippled with fear
Than when she grows up, she won’t need her family any longer
And that the family will reject her
Because their description of her would no longer fit
Can you see that?
And every time she’d attempt to become independent
To grow her business
To take ‘grown up’ steps and make ‘adult’ decisions
She’d sabotage the fuck out of herself
Not knowing why
And constantly feeling defeated
And often even like a failure
And that behaviour was learnt
Through the messy and disorganised school of life
That we all go through
The untrained mind made associations
And solid connections
That she can never live the life she desires
As it won’t fit the imprinted image she created of herself
And what it meant to her
—> the baby of the family <—
YET!
Now that she knows
And is aware of that story
She CAN and WILL do something about it
See…
It’s the whole A.R.A. thing that Cliff and I talk about all the time
She’s gained AWARENESS
And taken RESPONSIBILITY for it
And now it is time for different ACTION
It’s like after all the messy school years, and maybe even a degree that you never wanted
Now going through a new University of Life
And retraining in a Conscious Creator profession that you know allows you to have the results in life that you actually desire
It’s about discovering the stories first
Then realising that you had part in creating them also
They didn’t just happen to you
Yet you simply didn’t know any different
And now that YOU DO KNOW
You have a choice
To re-learn in a new and empowering way
Whatever it is that you’ve always wanted
To change your game of life
From struggle and fear to inner peace and self confidence
To get the hat and the scroll
And to graduate in your new life with honours
Just think about it
Wouldn’t it be amazing…?
M x
And by the way
The same client
2 months ago struggled with committing to an investment agreement on a program she knew was going to assist her and her business massively
As she didn’t know where her finances were
If she was going to be able to maintain her commitment
And you know what?
She reached out last week asking if she can pay up all her remaining instalments as she’s now in a position to…
See – this is only one possible outcome of what happens when you take responsibility and commit to different action
This WHOLE week I’m going to be speaking openly and honestly about how me and some of our clients went from the honour role of ‘sucking’ at life to mine and theirs now – Unlimited Life.
You know the whole thing I started last week with speaking to you about my vulnerability and home schooling my mind out of suffering, frustration and disappointment with myself.
It’s going to be transparent, there will be uncomfortable truths for some of you but if you pay attention and take action, it can change your life.
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