Oh the number of people that blamed me for their failures in life…
Oh the number of people that blamed me as a mentor for their life failures…
Some directly (which I respect deeply!)
Yet most through offloading and comments made to other people
That this or that didn’t work out or did not happen because as a coach or a mentor I did not deliver…
If I ever learnt anything powerful as a mentor
It’s that you can not do the heavy lifting for a client
And if you attempt to
You end up frustrated
Burn out quickly
And are likely acting out of your saviour pattern
I did…
The thing is
When you start shifting your life
When you see the difference your own inner work made
Most of the time
You’re going to want to shout from the rooftops
You’re going to want to make everyone understand
That only if they allow themselves to believe things can be different
That only if they take full responsibility for everything and I mean EVERYTHING that shows up in their life
It will change
They’ll feel liberated
And even in the darkest moments
(Those never go away btw! And if you believe they do… Bon voyage on your journey to hell as you’re forever live your life hoping that one day contrast will be over… it won’t!)
They’ll be able to allow themselves to grieve (suppressed grief becomes chronic depression)
And once the grief is felt and experienced
They’ll start seeing the lessons and gifts
Even in the most challenging of circumstances
And continue to grow and expand their life to even greater and vaster dimension
Because when you become more conscious about this whole thing called life
You’ll understand that there is no good or bad
No right or wrong
And anything and everything that shows up in your life
Was meant to happen just because it did!
And when you look back you can see the dots connect and make sense…
Sounds good right?
And if you’ve felt that in your life at some point you’ll agree
How much you want everyone else to know
And if and when you embrace the path of a coach or a mentor
You’d want to just hand it over on a pretty plate
Yet
YOU
CAN’T
It
Just
Can’t
Happen!
I had my first ever golf lesson yesterday and I loved it
My coach showed me how to swing the club and hit the ball a few times before I was given the chance to hit my own
Yet
If I want to become a golfer
He can’t keep swinging for me
I won’t ever learn right?
It is that simple!
It is NO DIFFERENT in your inner work my friends
You get to keep swinging the club to become better and better
And sometimes you’ll hit the ball perfectly
And sometimes you’ll hack the freaking golf course
And what do you do?
Do you scream and shout
Innerly or outwardly at your coach that they didn’t deliver?
Or do you lay down another ball and keep swinging?
Coach of any kind or a mentor
Can show you the way
And a good one like that will make it individual to YOU and your personal circumstances
See I had to play with the kiddies clubs yesterday
As even the ladies ones were too long for me
The coach made an effort to pick up the one that will suit me the most
And that’s what a good coach or a mentor will do
They’ll guide you deep into the harbour of your inner depths
Yet they can only ever be the lighthouse
It’s up to you to follow its guidance
M x
❤️
HAVE YOU HEARD THAT THE PRESENCE EXPERIENCE 2.0 IS HERE?
London
The Stunning Haymarket Hotel
Nov 2nd
It’s our last event in the UK this year!
YOU and us in the room filled with presence
As deep presence is required
To change patterns
Rewire behaviours
To follow the guidance of the lighthouse yore seeing
You have to be able to steer and navigate yourself consciously
And consciousness is accessible to you in the present moment
THE PRESENCE EXPERIENCE
Is going down in London
November 2nd
You and us
In a room filled with stillness
In a room where realisations and shifts are stacked up on the shelves
Available for you for the taking
We couldn’t not run the 2.0 experience
After what went on in the room just a couple of weeks back
This was a no brainier
With several seats reserved by those who attended the first one
The booked them before the seats event went live
We want you in the room with us
If you’ve felt stuck
Pissed off
And frustrated
Not knowing why you keep walking round in circles
If you’ve been following our 3 Day Presence Challenge
You’d have seen what it costs you not to be present in each and every moment
We want you in the room with us!
But do you want us?
There are 3 epic options to suit you all
Have a peek
Yet you know as much as we do that words do those events very little justice!
???? Event and dinner tickets for the day
???? 5 week immersive with Cliff and myself including the event and dinner
???? And the most fucking amazing VIP as fuck experience we’ve ever created where you’re not only getting the 5 week immersion, the event and the dinner, we put you up at THE SOHO HOTEL (yes you’re read it right) the night before the event, we wine and dine you and feed you the most epic breakfast right before the event also…
I mean seriously?
This is our best VIP experience to date!
It’s time to step the fuck up!
I am ready?
Are you?
PM me or Cliff for more details ????????????
